{"id":52,"date":"2024-02-24T18:36:46","date_gmt":"2024-02-24T18:36:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/?p=52"},"modified":"2024-02-26T13:16:42","modified_gmt":"2024-02-26T13:16:42","slug":"zivot-po-potratu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/?p=52","title":{"rendered":"\u017divot po potratu"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cZni\u010d\u00ed ti to \u017eivot\u201d v\u011bta kterou v\u00e1m mo\u017en\u00e1 n\u011bkdo \u0159ekl, aby v\u00e1s odradil od mo\u017enosti j\u00edt na potrat, nebo vy sami se toho ob\u00e1v\u00e1te. Opravdu v\u00e1m zni\u010d\u00ed um\u011bl\u00fd potrat \u017eivot?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pocity<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Um\u011bl\u00fd potrat neboli interrupce je velice n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9, pro n\u011bkoho traumatick\u00e9 t\u00e9ma. Pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, \u017ee je to velmi psychicky n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd z\u00e1krok, je tak\u00e9 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 br\u00e1t interrupci seri\u00f3zn\u011b a rozhodnout se tak, aby jste si t\u00edmto rozhodnut\u00edm byli jisti. Kdy\u017e se rozhodnete pro interrupci a jste si naprosto jisti, \u017ee je ve va\u0161em p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b interrupce spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed, tak by v\u00e1m nem\u011bla zni\u010dit \u017eivot interrupce, ale pr\u00e1v\u011b nepodstoupen\u00ed interrupce by v takov\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b mohlo v\u00e9st k n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9mu \u017eivotu.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>P\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy \u017een, kter\u00e9 podstoupily potrat<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Abychom si trochu osv\u011btlili \u017eivot po interrupci m\u016f\u017eeme se zeptat \u017een, kter\u00e9 tento z\u00e1krok podstoupily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Zuzany. 50 let.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNa potratu jsem byla ve v\u011bku okolo 35 let. To bylo v dob\u011b kdy jsem m\u011bla dv\u011b mal\u00e9 d\u011bti a bydlela rozveden\u00e1 s p\u0159\u00edtelem, kter\u00fd m\u011bl tak\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Dozv\u011bd\u011bla jsem jsem se to ve \u010dtvrtek, v \u00fater\u00fd u\u017e jsem sed\u011bla v \u010dek\u00e1rn\u011b. V\u00e1hala jsem. Rozhodovala jsem se od \u010dtvrtka do pond\u011bl\u00ed do ve\u010dera. Nervozita, cht\u011bla jsem to m\u00edt rychle za sebou, c\u00edtila jsem pocit viny ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 jsem v\u011bd\u011bla \u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1m nejl\u00e9pe pro v\u0161echny. P\u0159\u00edtel o tom v\u011bd\u011bl. Sna\u017eila jsem se s n\u00edm dohodnout jestli si d\u00edt\u011b chce nechat. Nic mi ne\u0159ekl. Po z\u00e1kroku jsem kv\u016fli tomu bre\u010dela, poprv\u00e9 a naposled. D\u016fvod pro\u010d jsem tam \u0161la byl ten, \u017ee jsem v\u011bd\u011bla, \u017ee bych nedok\u00e1zala d\u00e1t v\u0161em \u010dty\u0159em d\u011btem to, co by pot\u0159ebovali. V\u011bd\u011bla jsem tak\u00e9, \u017ee m\u016fj tehdej\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtel nebyl ten spr\u00e1vn\u00fd pro \u017eivot a pota\u017emo by tomuto d\u00edt\u011bti nedok\u00e1zal d\u00e1t v\u0161e pot\u0159ebn\u00e9, nebo bych skon\u010dila jako matka samo\u017eivitelka se t\u0159emi d\u011btmi. Ud\u011blala bych to znova, jenom si kladu ot\u00e1zku, jestli bych to ud\u011blala kdyby to d\u011b\u0165\u00e1tko bylo star\u0161\u00ed. Nejsp\u00ed\u0161 bych to nezvl\u00e1dla. Hodn\u011b mi pomohl ultrazvuk na kter\u00e9m jsem vid\u011bla, \u017ee je to zat\u00edm pouze gesta\u010dn\u00ed v\u00e1\u010dek. Poka\u017ed\u00e9 kdy\u017e se pod\u00edv\u00e1m na sv\u00e9 kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 a \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 d\u011bti v\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e9 rozhodnut\u00ed bylo spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 a stoj\u00edm si za t\u00edm.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>D\u00e1le p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh Alexandry z knihy: \u017densk\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy \u2013 Cyklick\u00e1 cesta \u017eivotem od Lilie Khousnoutdinov\u00e9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cByla to dlouh\u00e1 cesta. Z odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed do \u010dern\u00e9 d\u00edry, k p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edch pocit\u016f ztr\u00e1ty, smutku a viny, skrze up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e9 slzy ke zpracov\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 k ritu\u00e1l\u016fm na odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, ke komunikaci s d\u00edt\u011btem, odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed sama sob\u011b, odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed partnerovi \u2013 po\u0159\u00e1d mi ne\u0161lo do hlavy, jak jsem mohla d\u00edt\u011b odm\u00edtnout \u2013 nemilovala jsem ho? A\u017e jsem po \u010dase p\u0159i\u0161la na to, \u017ee lze milovat a nep\u0159ijmout. A dovolila jsem si milovat i toto svoje d\u00edt\u011b. Kter\u00e9 jsem nep\u0159ijala. T\u0159eba jsem mu kupovala v\u011bci\u010dky, hra\u010dky. B\u011bhem druh\u00e9ho t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed jsem ob\u010das kupovala v\u011bci\u010dky pro oba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A dnes si stoj\u00edm za t\u00edm, \u017ee nep\u0159ijmout do \u017eivota d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 miluji, je lep\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e ho porodit a necht\u00edt. Odpou\u0161t\u00edm si. A c\u00edt\u00edm, \u017ee i d\u00edt\u011b mi odpustilo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\">Necht\u011bla jsem t\u011b, ale miluji t\u011b, synku\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cZni\u010d\u00ed ti to \u017eivot\u201d v\u011bta kterou v\u00e1m mo\u017en\u00e1 n\u011bkdo \u0159ekl, aby v\u00e1s odradil od mo\u017enosti j\u00edt na potrat, nebo vy sami se toho ob\u00e1v\u00e1te. Opravdu v\u00e1m zni\u010d\u00ed um\u011bl\u00fd potrat \u017eivot? Pocity Um\u011bl\u00fd potrat neboli interrupce je velice n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9, pro n\u011bkoho traumatick\u00e9 t\u00e9ma. Pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, \u017ee je to velmi psychicky n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd z\u00e1krok, je tak\u00e9 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 br\u00e1t &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/?p=52\" class=\"more-link\">Pokra\u010dovat ve \u010dten\u00ed<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8222;\u017divot po potratu&#8220;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-clanky"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=52"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":64,"href":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52\/revisions\/64"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=52"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=52"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ointerrupci.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=52"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}